I have said it once and I say it again, bookworms aren't anti socials. We tend to be quiet, it's just our nature but it doesn't mean we don't enjoy being with other people. I know some of you may think that we fantasize fictional characters just like you see in those funny memes, the fact is I can assure you that only a fraction of us do that.
I myself enjoy socializing. I am the shy type, I don't talk much unless when I am with those who are close to me and when having conversations, I am usually the listener. Not that I mind, of course. To tell you the truth, it's rarely that I interact with fellow readers and guess what, it doesn't really matter. The conversation is not less fun, in fact, I find it to be interesting. Here are my reasons:
I can do bookish talk and blab the spoilers altogether
Imagine doing that to other bookworms. They'd give you a nasty look. Spoiler is just taboo. This is why you should talk about books to the non readers because they usually don't give a damn. In my case, I can talk with my husband or coworker and say "you know, I read this book yesterday and can you believe that this guy still have a feeling for his ex fiancee when both of them are married? Oh, gosh! I feel so sorry for him!" I can also tell him/her the ending. See, sometimes blabbing a spoiler feels so unbelievably great!
They give me instant confidence boost
This happens to me just a few weeks ago. A coworker, who is crazy about TV series asked me about Game of Thrones. "Is it good? Should I watch it?" I couldn't believe what I heard since we usually exchange jokes only. He's asking my opinion, really? I suddenly felt like the smartest person in the world.
They even make me feel grateful
Many of my friends and coworkers were readers back then, but due to lifestyle changes (mainly works and kids) forced them to stop reading altogether. I can relate to that, I was in the same condition. The difference is I make time to read or in other words, I force myself to read to chase the stress away. Though it sounds very simple and easy, it's not for everyone. This make me feel grateful because I can still enjoy reading even when my time is very limited.
... and after all, life doesn't revolve around books
Being with non readers allows me to live the life to the fullest. It's a good feeling to be in a supportive community and get to know more about each other. Sometimes a friend of mine comes with me to the library, other time it's my turn to accompany her to buy her long coveted shoes. It's a win-win and an experience too precious to ignore.
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How about you? Why not tell us about those people who are close to you! Are they readers? What have you learned from them?
